Title: Top 5 Things Parents Wish They Knew Before Starting ABA

Starting ABA therapy can feel o

verwhelming. Between navigating insurance, understanding what the therapy actually entails, and trusting strangers with your child’s progress, it’s a lot to process. As a provider who works closely with families, I’ve had countless parents say the same thing:

“I wish someone had told me this before we started.”

So, whether you’re just beginning or reevaluating your child’s current services, here are five things parents often wish they knew earlier in their ABA journey:

1. ABA isn’t a one-size-fits-all therapy — and it shouldn’t be.

ABA is most effective when it’s customized. No two children are the same, and no two treatment plans should be either. If your provider is using generic goals or a cookie-cutter approach, it’s okay to ask for more. Therapy should be based on your child’s needs, preferences, and long-term goals — not just what looks good on paper.

2. The therapist-child relationship matters more than you think.

We talk a lot about data in ABA, but connection is just as critical. If your child doesn’t feel safe or understood by their RBT, progress will stall. It’s perfectly okay to speak up if something feels off. Don’t be afraid to ask for a new therapist or request more support in building rapport — a strong relationship is the foundation of real growth.

3. You have the right to understand what’s happening — every step of the way.

You should never feel left in the dark. Ask to see your child’s goals. Request data updates. Sit in on sessions. A good ABA provider wants you involved and will take the time to explain what’s being taught, how it’s being taught, and why. The more you know, the better you can advocate — and participate.

4. Progress isn’t always linear, and that’s okay.

Some days will feel like big wins. Other days might feel like steps backward. That’s normal. Real growth often includes plateaus, regressions, and slow climbs — especially when your child is learning complex skills like communication, self-regulation, or independence. Celebrate the small wins and trust the process (as long as that process is ethical and individualized).

5. You can (and should) trust your gut.

You know your child better than anyone. If something doesn’t feel right — whether it’s a strategy, a schedule, or how a session went — speak up. A quality ABA team should listen, collaborate, and adjust. You’re not being “difficult” or “overly sensitive” — you’re advocating, and your voice matters.

💛 Final Thoughts

ABA can be incredibly powerful when done right. The goal is never to change who your child is — it’s to help them thrive in a way that respects their identity, honors their voice, and supports your family’s goals.

At Beehavior ABA Therapy, we believe parents are partners — not just observers. If you’re starting this journey or feeling unsure about where you are now, we’re here to answer questions and support you every step of the way.

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